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Call it What it Is
January 2, 2015
Internet Dating In Thailand: Lessons Learned
January 2, 2015
Wheat People, Rice People
January 5, 2015
My Phnom Penh Trip Report or Phnom Penh for Newbies
January 5, 2015
Decision Time
January 6, 2015
Thailand No Way Part 1
January 6, 2015
What Not To Do In Thailand
January 7, 2015
Losing Direction
January 7, 2015
How I Discovered Your Site Part 2
January 8, 2015
Monopoly On Sorrow
January 8, 2015
Thailand No Way Part 2
January 9, 2015
Happy For a Moment
January 9, 2015
A 30-Year Old Virgin
January 12, 2015
Patpong Bargirl Experience
January 12, 2015
Check My Brain
January 16, 2015
Thailand No Way Part 3
January 16, 2015
Golf And Girls – What Could Be Better?
January 22, 2015
One Never-Ending Kind Of Love
January 22, 2015
The More Things Change The More They Stay The Same
January 24, 2015
Notes From Nam
January 24, 2015
Why Thailand is so Addictive to Western Men
January 27, 2015
Promoting Pattaya in Europe
January 27, 2015
An Isaan Funeral
January 28, 2015
First Two Times in Bangkok – Part One
January 28, 2015
Why I will Never Marry a Thai: Intellectual Curiosity
January 29, 2015
Nanook’s Thailand Revised
January 29, 2015
Smile Though Your Heart Is Aching
January 31, 2015
Another One Bites The Dust
January 31, 2015
The Bars Today: Thai Inquisitive Nature + Lady Drinks
February 3, 2015
Mr. Brown’s Monument
February 3, 2015
In Defence Of Thai Women
February 4, 2015
An Ordinary Life – Part 1
February 4, 2015
Will Thailand Become Japan?
February 5, 2015
My First Day of Online Dating
February 5, 2015
Something New
February 7, 2015
Why I Would Never Marry a Westerner: Lack of Anything
February 7, 2015
Thailand Is “The Game” And You’re Playing The Starring Role
February 9, 2015
An Ordinary Life – Part 2
February 9, 2015
Farang Rant
February 10, 2015
The Brokenman is Repaired Part 15/1
February 10, 2015
Comment on “Baby Doll” by Pattaya Crawler
February 11, 2015
Western Sexual Dystopia & How It Went Wrong
February 11, 2015
A Different Type Of Bargirl, An Asian Perspective Part 1
February 13, 2015
Nowhere Man
February 13, 2015
An Ordinary Life – Part 3
February 16, 2015
First Impressions
February 16, 2015
The Coolidge Effect in Pattaya
February 17, 2015
Greed And Customer Relations
February 17, 2015
A Different Type Of Bargirl, An Asian Perspective Part 2
February 18, 2015
Simon’s ‘Why I Will Never Marry A Thai: Intellectual Curiosity’
February 18, 2015
Generalizations Part-I, or ‘My Bar-girl is Different’
February 19, 2015
The Brokenman is Repaired Part 15/2
February 19, 2015
Generalizations… Part-Ib, or… ‘My Bar-girl is Different’
February 23, 2015
Every Word Matters
February 23, 2015
An Ordinary Life – Part 4
February 26, 2015
Generalizations Part-II, or ‘My Bar-girl is Different’
February 26, 2015
Dating a Thai Girl in Canada Part 1
February 28, 2015
Was Thailand Better Years Ago?
February 28, 2015
StickmanBangkok.com Changed Me
March 3, 2015
Generalizations Part-III-A, or ‘My Bar-girl is Different’
March 3, 2015
Cats and Kitties
March 4, 2015
Briffault’s Law Financial Considerations
March 4, 2015
3 Friends
March 5, 2015
Goodbye, Farewell, auf Wiedersehen, Adieu
March 5, 2015
What REALLY Happens To Bargirls When They Leave The Industry
March 5, 2015
An Ordinary Life – Part 5
March 6, 2015
Older Men Attracted to Smaller Women
March 6, 2015
Generalizations Part-III-B, or ‘My Bar-girl is Different’
March 7, 2015
Why Do We Do It?
March 7, 2015
An Ordinary Life – Part 6
March 10, 2015
Why Does He Do It?
March 10, 2015
Generalizations Regarding Harry’s Generalizations
March 12, 2015
How To Take An Uncooperative Taxi in Bangkok
March 12, 2015
Captain’s Paradise
March 13, 2015
Taxis, A Traveler’s Best Resource, or Worst Nightmare
March 13, 2015
Simon
March 17, 2015
The Brokenman is Repaired Part 15/3
March 17, 2015
Cellies
March 18, 2015
11 Years Faithful, Now With Mia Noi
March 18, 2015
My Answer to “Why I Never Married a Westerner”
March 19, 2015
I Won’t Be Back
March 19, 2015
And The BS Continues…
March 20, 2015
It’s Not The Glass, It’s What’s In It
March 20, 2015
Why We’re Here
March 21, 2015
Why Stickman Will Be Back
March 21, 2015
Wife Consents to Other Lady and Steps Up Game
March 23, 2015
Belonging
March 24, 2015
The Things They Got
March 24, 2015
Generalizations Part-IV, or ‘My Bar-girl is Different’
March 25, 2015
Waiting For Arrival
March 25, 2015
I Broke All The Rules
March 28, 2015
The Brokenman is Repaired Part 15.4
March 28, 2015
Bigus Dickus
March 28, 2015
Comparison of Thailand to the Philippines
March 30, 2015
www.generalisations.sucks
March 30, 2015
My Story
April 1, 2015
Another Farang Statistic?
April 1, 2015
The Decline, Or Rise, Of Wanchai
April 6, 2015
Comparing the Philippines and Thailand: A Different View
April 6, 2015
Even A Stopped Clock Is Right Twice A Day?
April 6, 2015
Crazy!
April 6, 2015
So Long, and Thanks for All the Sanuk
April 8, 2015
Thai Infidelity?
April 8, 2015
Marrying A Thai, Advice
April 8, 2015
A Humble Report
April 8, 2015
The Island Part 4, The Misfit’ s Final Rant About Thailand
April 11, 2015
The Final Word
April 11, 2015
Dating in Thailand and in a Quandary
April 14, 2015
South-East Asia Adventures
April 14, 2015
It Seemed Like a Good Idea at the Time…
April 15, 2015
The Road Less Travelled
April 15, 2015
On Stickman’s Reversal
April 17, 2015
In Support Of The Philippines
April 17, 2015
The Debate
April 21, 2015
Not All Bargirls Are The Same
April 21, 2015
A Few Misunderstandings
April 23, 2015
The Stereotypical Viewpoint Of Dating A Thai Girl In Australia Is Depressing
April 23, 2015
In The 70s
April 25, 2015
Is Thailand Becoming Very Expensive for Euro Citizens?
April 25, 2015
A Little Essay On Filipinas
April 30, 2015
Land of Confusion Part 1
April 30, 2015
Pattaya Pickpocket Blowjobs and “Russian” Drink Scams
May 2, 2015
An Extraordinary Adventure
May 2, 2015
I’m About To Marry A Thai Girl, Advice Needed!
May 4, 2015
Land of Confusion Part 2
May 4, 2015
First Time Gogo Impression
May 12, 2015
Education Visa / Extensions To Go The Way Of The Dinosaur, Dodo Bird; End Of An Era!
May 12, 2015
MGTOW, the Western World and the Escapists Paradise
May 14, 2015
Failure Of Women Rights As Critical Obstacles, Violence, Immorality Against Gender In Thailand
May 14, 2015
After 3+ Years in Thailand, Reflections From Home
May 19, 2015
The (micro) Evolution of a Bangkok Visitor
May 19, 2015
Philippines Documents – A(nother) Word Of Caution
May 21, 2015
If At First You Don’t Succeed…. Don’t Take Up Skydiving
May 21, 2015
Land of Confusion Part 3
May 23, 2015
Really, Guys?
May 23, 2015
My Lao Love
May 26, 2015
Bad Advice
May 26, 2015
When the Condom Breaks, the Truth Leaks Out Part 1
May 29, 2015
Back To Basics
May 29, 2015
Paradise Lost
June 4, 2015
The Real Long
June 4, 2015
Thai Be, Or Not Thai Be
June 6, 2015
Older Men With Much Younger Thai Girlfriends, What’s The Attraction?
June 6, 2015
Reflections From An Odyssey
June 9, 2015
Are All Women Built The Same The World Over?
June 9, 2015
Fell For A Walking Street Bargirl!
June 11, 2015
The End Of A Dream
June 11, 2015
When the Condom Breaks, the Truth Leaks Out Part 2
June 12, 2015
Waiting For You
June 12, 2015
Land of Confusion Part 4
June 20, 2015
Every Dog Has Its Day
June 20, 2015
Thou Doth Protest Too Much, Methinks…!
June 23, 2015
What The Girls Get Up To Went You’re Not Around
June 23, 2015
Travel Notes: Summer
June 25, 2015
The Last 6 Months, Am I Losing It Or Have I Found My Soulmate
June 25, 2015
Turning 40
July 3, 2015
Hope Kills
July 3, 2015
Yao and Pink – Two Breaths Of Fresh Air
July 8, 2015
My Thai Girlfriend from Isaan
July 8, 2015
Indecision – The Great Enemy Within
July 15, 2015
Is Thailand Really Changing?
July 15, 2015
The Beginning
July 17, 2015
Land of Confusion Part 5
July 17, 2015
Random Events
July 21, 2015
When Bargirls Leave Their Mark (Literally)
July 21, 2015
A Simple But Highly-Valued Gift
July 23, 2015
Careful Or Just Too Careful?
July 23, 2015
Bangkok Gogo Bars & Farangland
July 28, 2015
What Do You Smell Of?
July 28, 2015
Shoddy Reporting Or Pure Vilification Of Pattaya’s Lady-Boys?
July 30, 2015
Internet Dating in Thailand: In Thai Language
July 30, 2015
Instant Gratification – Drunkenness Ranting
August 4, 2015
What I Learnt So Far
August 4, 2015
10 Myths About Mongers (and their Thai Bargirls) – Part 1
August 5, 2015
Pyramids of Thailand
August 5, 2015
10 Myths About Mongers (and their Thai Bargirls) – Part 2
August 7, 2015
Seeking Redemption in a Lifetime of Regrets
August 7, 2015
Girl Form Nan – A Journey Of Scam, Deceive And Contempt
August 11, 2015
Stick Will Return To Live In Thailand
August 11, 2015
10 Myths About Mongers (and their Thai Bargirls) – Part 3
August 13, 2015
Bow Ties & Birthday Suits
August 13, 2015
Thai Girlfriend, I Don’t Know What To Think
August 15, 2015
Nothing To Compare
August 15, 2015
Thailand Bar Girls, Gogo Girls, Freelancers, Hi-So Girls, Escorts And Any Other P4P I Forgot
August 18, 2015
Shoddy Reporting Or Pure Vilification Of Pattaya’s Lady-Boys Part 2?
August 18, 2015
The Temple Of Truth Is Under Construction
August 20, 2015
Christmas In Bangkok
August 20, 2015
The Thai Massage Phenomenon Down Under
August 22, 2015
Is She A Good Girl?
August 22, 2015
My First Night In Bangkok & Asia, 1978
August 25, 2015
Cuckold
August 25, 2015
Humbled By My Kik
August 27, 2015
Cuckolds Part 2
August 27, 2015
Postcard from Prague
August 29, 2015
Pool Break
August 29, 2015
Where Is She Now?
August 31, 2015
What Ifs And Maybes And Fat Girls Singing
August 31, 2015
Phnom Penh Nightlife 1991-2003, A Nostalgic Look Back
September 1, 2015
Peace In Simple Things
September 1, 2015
Cuckolds Part 3
September 10, 2015
Thailand, It Is What It Is
September 10, 2015
My Thai Wife; No Problems Here
September 11, 2015
In Defense of Prostitution
September 11, 2015
Ashley’s Plaques
September 15, 2015
Miss M
September 15, 2015
Silver And Gold Have I None
September 17, 2015
Hua Hin and Sun City, AZ
September 17, 2015
What Caucasians (Or White) Do Not See
September 18, 2015
I Fell For A Massage Girl
September 18, 2015
Getting The Priorities Right
September 22, 2015
My Comments on “I Fell For A Massage Girl”
September 22, 2015
Are There Still Good Girls Waiting For The White Knight?
September 24, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 1
September 24, 2015
Whispers From The Past
September 26, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 2
September 26, 2015
Around The Traps: August – September in South-East Asia
September 28, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 3
September 28, 2015
Yet Another Day
September 29, 2015
Eden Club Visit
September 29, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 4
October 1, 2015
Soon To Be Girlfriend
October 1, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 5
October 3, 2015
Thai Ladies, Do Yourself A Favour
October 3, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 6
October 5, 2015
Bargirl Advice Please
October 5, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 7
October 7, 2015
Rabbit
October 7, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 8
October 9, 2015
Thai Ladies, Do Yourself A Favour, Part 2
October 9, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 9
October 12, 2015
Modern Day Colonisation Of Thailand By Farang (Sort Of)
October 12, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 10
October 14, 2015
The Islands
October 14, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 11
October 16, 2015
Thai Ladies, Do Yourself A Favor
October 16, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 12
October 19, 2015
Anonymous, Do Yourself a Favor
October 19, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 13
October 21, 2015
Thai Ladies, Do Yourself A Favour, Part 3
October 21, 2015
An Ordinary Life – Part 7
October 23, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 14
October 23, 2015
Heart Attack in Chiang Mai
October 26, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 15
October 26, 2015
Pig or Beast?
October 28, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 16
October 28, 2015
Back in Jakarta
October 30, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 17
October 30, 2015
Harry, Give It A Rest
October 30, 2015
So You Think Thai Women Are Mercenary?
November 2, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 18
November 2, 2015
Note to Hua Hin Harry
November 2, 2015
On-Line Dating- The Real Story
November 4, 2015
The Psychology Of A Delusional Monger
November 4, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 19
November 4, 2015
Transfer of Thai Land
November 6, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 20
November 6, 2015
Back in Jakarta Part 2
November 9, 2015
Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – A Few Conclusions
November 9, 2015
Good Grief, HH Harry
November 11, 2015
Thanks, Harry — I Just Fired My Secretary!
November 11, 2015
Thai Girlfriend Advice
November 11, 2015
When One Thai Wife Is Not Enough
November 13, 2015
Bottom of the Barrel
November 13, 2015
Regarding Korean Women
November 16, 2015
Full Moon Madness
November 16, 2015
My Experience With Thai Girlfriend’s Face
November 18, 2015
My Alter Ego
November 18, 2015
To Buy Or Not To Buy
November 20, 2015
Malaysia & Thailand Trip Report, October 2015
November 20, 2015
An Alternative Career
November 23, 2015
Cast Ashore
November 23, 2015
It’s (Almost) Always About The Money
November 25, 2015
The Lisbon Alternative…
November 25, 2015
My Chiang Mai Girlfriend
November 27, 2015
Nok Bin Ma
November 27, 2015
Border Town
November 30, 2015
Thai Family in the UK, November 2015
November 30, 2015
What A Shame, Her Mind is Fried!
December 1, 2015
I Married A Ladyboy!
December 1, 2015
An Explosion Waiting to Happen
December 8, 2015
A Tale Of Two Islands: Part One
December 8, 2015
Back in Jakarta Part 3
December 9, 2015
We Gotta Get Out Of This Place
December 9, 2015
Gin (จิน)
December 11, 2015
Mutiny On The Bounty Re-Enact Again And Again In Thailand – A Broken Dream
December 11, 2015
My Soi 6 Electrical Engineer
December 14, 2015
Back to Jakarta (But Now In Thailand) Part 4
December 14, 2015
A Tale Of Two Islands: Part Two
December 16, 2015
Perceptions of Jakarta
December 16, 2015
It’s Pathetic
December 18, 2015
Back to Jakarta Part 5
December 18, 2015
Travels in Thailand 2015 – On the Road to Bang Saphan Noi
December 29, 2015
Until The Last Visitor Leaves
December 29, 2015
Travels in Thailand 2015 – Sukhumvit and the Chao Phraya
December 30, 2015
It’s All About Stereotyping
December 30, 2015