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The Foolproof Method Of Thai Online Dating

  • Written by Anonymous
  • July 30th, 2010
  • 4 min read


Black Pagoda Patpong Bangkok


In any country, you have the option of online dating. If you have tried to meet a woman via the internet, you know how frustrating and difficult this can be where you just waste your time and money.

Dating in Thailand can be the same if you do not have an effective approach. You can be like every other person out there and get minimal to no results, or you can read this section and find the bulletproof system to meeting Thai girls online.

Personally, I love the idea of meeting girls online. This gives you an entirely different avenue to meeting someone new without leaving your house. Less is more. Do less and get more is a great philosophy to live you dating life by.

Before you enter the online dating world, you must remember one thing:

Online dating is a numbers game!

Meaning, even with the greatest profile, the most handsome photo, and an effective first email, you will still only get a response from a small percentage of the women you contact.

A real example of this:

When I first started online dating in Thailand, I joined two main websites. One was free; the other was a paid one.

After a couple of weeks of trial and error, I had a great profile with a few great opening emails.

A week later, I had five dates that week.

I would usually do a daytime meet up at Starbucks for the first date. This is a great choice because with online dating, there are quite a few risks involved (explained below). A daytime date is best because if you do not like her or if she has an unexpected surprise, you can leave in a respectful manner after 20 minutes.

Anyway, during all these dates I would out of curiosity ask, “how many men do you have contact you a week?” I would get the response of them not knowing, but it was a lot. Two weeks down the road, one of the girls ended up as my next girlfriend. I would ask her the same question, and she said about a thousand men a week. I thought she was joking, a thousand new men contacting a girl in a week. That number was hard to wrap my mind around.

She opened up her laptop and logged into her second email account (created for online dating), low and behold, she was getting over 200 new emails a day. She was having over 1,400 new men contact her every week.

One reason I love online dating is the variety of girls you can meet. Online you will find females ranging from bar girls to very successful women. By reading their profile, you can get a good idea how to classify the girl into one of the three categories:

1- Looking for a new customers

2- Looking for a boyfriend

3- Looking for a husband

Look at the age group of their preferred mate. If she is 22 years old and looking for a man between the ages of 40 – 60, you will be able to tell which of the three she is. Did she actually take the time to write her profile and add real photos of her? You might have a number two on your hands.

Does she have a photo wearing a bikini or sexy underwear? Good chance she is a number one.

When you read our proven techniques for online dating, you will find that these questions do not matter until you have already received a response. By falling in love with her photo and profile before a response is a good way to set up yourself for disappointment.

Seven Proven Online Dating Tips:

1- As mentioned many times already, online dating is a numbers game. Do not get hung
up on one girl’s profile. Nearly 100 new women sign up every week for these websites, use this to your advantage.

2- If it’s a paid website, start with the girls who have paid their monthly membership. The girls who have paid are more serious in their search for a man.

3- Next, start with the newest members. These are the girls which just signed up and have not been bombarded for the last few week or months from men already. Start with the fresh meat.

4- Do not waste your time sending an indicator of interest. Messages are more effective.

5- Create a template and mass mail it. You can go with two styles. A short message to the point or something more detailed which refers to her profile. Use the second type if the girl is super cute who took time to write her profile.

6- Use your best photos, but have your profile show that you are a “fun” and “good” person. Online dating can be scary for some girls, show that you are a good man.

7- Get her on MSN or Skype ASAP. Once you have some contact with them, you want to start talking with them off the dating website. This will keep their attention on you. As you can see by our proven templates, you can even ask or offer your MSN user name in the first message.

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Stickman's thoughts:

For sure, there are lots of opportunities to meet Thai women online. There is an increasing overlap however, between girls selling themselves in the bar and hunting for prey online. Where once the cyber world was the sole domain of the so-called good girls, those days are long gone!