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My View Of Thai Thai Women

  • Written by Anonymous
  • December 11th, 2010
  • 4 min read


Just thought I would give you an insight to my experience with Thai girls. Not just bar girls, there were also working girls and mixed race Thais.

Ok so first of all, I'm 24 years old. I lived in Hua Hin for almost 2 years, and have frequently paid visits over the years. Here is a little background of my experiences in Thailand.

The first girl I ever met in Thailand was through the business I worked for. I had to apply for a work permit, and was put in a taxi with a very beautiful girl who would be organising all the legal documentation for my prolonged stay in Thailand. She was beautiful, shy and didn't speak much English. All the way to Bangkok in the taxi she was on her phone, calling, texting, the full works. I eventually got together with her, and slept with her on our second date. We were together for about a month but then I realised I didn't want to be with her. She always seemed to have mountains of money, numerous email accounts and a good job. Although her job only paid about 30k a month.

The second girl I was with was a Stamford International University student who was 27 years old. Again, very pretty, had a car, a lot of money. We had sex on our first night together, and we were together for about 4 months. I was madly in love with her but found out she had a husband who was 42 from England, and 2 kids! Amazingly clever I must say at playing me the whole time.

I then dated a few bargirls, and found them all to be as everyone describes. They are all lying, cheating, two-faced, sneaky people. Although I must say, they must have some degree of mental strength as being so clever about their ways!

My recent girlfriend, who I just broke up with last week, I would like to say a few words about because this was the biggest shocker for me.

She is the prettiest girl I have ever seen in my life. That is without a doubt. She is a model. She is 1/4 Italian, 1/4 Swiss and 1/2 Thai. Although living in Thailand most her life, she has lived in Germany for 2 years, and Italy for 1 year staying with "relatives".

I met her at her Dad's bar, where she was staying at the time because he was extremely ill, and has unfortunately since passed away. We exchanged numbers on the first night, and I sent her a message the following evening to ask if I could come and see her. It was about midnight, and she was in bed, and came outside to see me. We kissed, and that was all. The next day we met up and went to the waterfall together, and had an amazing time. That night was the first night we had sex. Everything was going well with us, until one night I went to a club, and I knew she was there, but I didn't tell her I was going. I saw her outside, and went up to her and tried to kiss her, but she moved away. I then said come and join us inside, and she told me she would in a minute. I saw her walk in the club and go round the back, and I didn't see her for over an hour! Then she came and stood by me and made out everything was alright!

I hear many many, many bad things about her and even my best friend who has lived there a long time told me she is a bad one and that I should be careful. I didn't believe him, because I thought she was mixed and therefore not a Thai in attitude. We had an argument one night and she held a knife to me. I heard she had met guys at the market whilst I was in my apartment. She has BB messenger, and I remember seeing in her contact list about 30 guys and 7 girls, all of who were her friends apparently!

I could continue forever but my hands are starting to hurt. <WTF?Stick> There are numerous things I can mention about her, but I would like to say that from my experiences and opinions, ALL Thai girls are the same, even the ones with good jobs and mixed race families. They all have a logic of money, and no serious understanding of a trustworthy meaningful relationship. I think their dating culture is based on contacting many people at the same time, and having backups just in case one doesn't work? Correct me if I'm wrong!

Sorry for my long rant, but I find it unbelievable that one race of people can think the same about something so important in life!

Thai Dating, Singles and Personals


Stickman's thoughts:

What you say about Thai women may be an accurate description of the women you met, and the type of Thai women most Western guys meet. You hear similar from many Western guys and might start to think that this is an accurate description of all Thai women. For those Thai women who target Westerners (bargirls, Internet girls, those who hang out at Khao San and places Westerners are known to flock to) do so often for money or material gain. If, however, you were to approach the 90%+ of Thai women who don't flock to the places where Western guys are known to hang out, you might find them to be rather different. The women you chased were all easy and dropped their knickers for you in a flash. You went for the easy girls. The low hanging fruit is seldom the best…