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The Path To A Threesome With My Girlfriend And A Bargirl

  • Written by Erik
  • August 5th, 2009
  • 11 min read



I met my girlfriend Nui in a quite big and prosperous bar in Soi Cowboy. She told me she had been working one month when I first met her, but I later found out that she had only been there one week. I ended up going there to see her quite often, and while I seldom was interested in watching the other girls dancing, they sometimes had a lesbian show which I enjoyed very much. I asked her if she had ever been barfined by a woman, and she said that she had sometimes been approached by women or couples, but she couldn't make herself do anything more than sit with them for a few drinks in the bar, even though they gave her big tips and offered a lot of money for the night. Lesbian action was very much not her thing.

After a while we realized our relationship had progressed from a business relation to something more serious, and she quit the bar and went back to her former job. A while later she moved in with me. She didn't work long enough in the bar industry to become hardened or change very much. One good thing, though, with having a girlfriend who previously worked in the bar scene is that she quite enjoys going out in Soi Cowboy or Nana, so we go there perhaps every second week or so.

When in the bars, one of the things we do to pass the time is ranking the girls on stage on their looks, how good they dance, etc. Quite often we have very different opinions, but we usually agree to who is the ugliest. Part of the routine is also that I ask her who turns her on, if she'd like to barfine one of them, etc., which she always has refused.

A month or so, we went to a beer garden close to our house, and had quite a few drinks. I don't know how we ended up talking about lesbian girls, but Nui said that she might like to try having sex with a tomboy, if she was handsome and looked a like a boy. She said that there were a couple of tomboys at her work that were to her liking, but they already had girlfriends. Also, we had met a Thai girl in the elevator in our building a couple of days before that seemed to be lesbian, based on her haircut and the way she dressed and walked. She also fit her criteria, she said. I suggested she should try to befriend the girl in our building, and see how things progressed. She asked me if I wouldn't be jealous if she had a female "gik", but I told her that would be a major turn-on for me and I would have no problem with that at all, unless of course it turned out that she'd lose interest in me, but that was a risk I was willing to take.

I was very happy that evening – all my previous attempts to broach the subject of her trying a girl had fallen flat or been met with a joke. The next day she said that it was all an experiment from her side to see if I would be jealous. Further attempts to bring up the subject got nowhere. I wasn't completely sure that it all was a ruse the day before, though. She is not good at making things up – especially not when drunk – and I got the feeling that there was at least a bit of truth in what she said about certain girls being to her taste.

A couple of days later we went to a shop that sells pirated TV series on DVD, and since we've bought a lot of DVDs from them, we could select one for free. We didn't know what to buy, so we were browsing through the binder where they had pictures of all series and movies they had in stock. One of them was called "The L word", and Nui pointed to that one and asked the girl in the shop if it was good. She started laughing and said that it was about lesbians. OK, let's have that one, Nui said, and I happily agreed. One more hint that she was starting to get interested…

About a week ago, at an intimate moment, I broached the subject of barfining a girl so they could play while I was watching. She said if we were to do such a thing, I would have to bang the girl while Nui was watching, since that would be a turn-on for her. I said it would be difficult for me, but if we were all involved at the same time it would be ok. Afterwards she said that she only said that to turn me on, but I had now decided she'd given me enough hints.

Last Friday was my last working day before three weeks of vacation, and I thought some celebration was in place. I told her we should barfine a girl that she could try, and she said no, I'm not coming. Alright, I said, let's just go eat in one of my favorite places in Soi 33, and we'll see what happens later. After a nice dinner, we ended up playing pool in the open place at the Asoke end of Soi Cowboy. I continued mentioning barfining a girl, but she always said no. I got the feeling it was mostly because she was embarrassed and couldn't admit that she was a bit curious. After two games, we moved on to a small go-go bar in the soi.

We did our usual thing and started ranking the girls, and I put more emphasis than usual on the questions about who she wanted to barfine, but was still met with resistance. After a while, a girl named Pae came to where we sat and said that she was sure she'd seen Nui before, but wasn't sure. They started talking, and couldn't figure it out. I believe she realized what my plans were and took the opportunity of introducing herself this way. Nui ordered a drink for her and they chatted for awhile, until Pae had to dance again. I pressed Nui some more about barfining a girl, and she said that if we were to do such a thing, she had to get drunk first, to get some courage. She ordered a couple of tequilas and downed them quickly. A while later Pae came back, and they continued chatting. She got another drink, and Nui ordered a cocktail. I said something again about barfine, and she laughed shyly and said "stop it", while pushing me away a bit. Pae asked her what I had said, and she told her I wanted her to try a girl, but that she was too shy.

Pae's reaction was predictable, and fit my plans perfectly. She looked shocked and asked loudly why she was shy about that. It was nothing to be shy about, and if I wanted her to try it she should, if she was a good girlfriend. They kept laughing and talking and drinking some more, but I couldn't follow what they said with my limited Thai. After a little while Nui said something to Pae which was met with a loud "day…. daaay!" Perfect…

It was time for Pae to dance again, and this time she was smiling at Nui all the time, making gestures, pointing and blowing kisses. Nui was embarrassed but at the same time seemed to enjoy herself immensely. Close to the end of the dance shift Nui had to go to the bathroom, so I was sitting by myself when Pae got back. She asked me where Nui was and I told her she was in the bathroom. She said ok, and immediately left for the bathroom herself. She seemed really keen on taking care of my girlfriend. After they got back, they had another drink and we barfined Pae, short time. Nui seemed rather excited about the whole thing now, and so did Pae. Not to mention myself :)

They were a bit hungry, so we went to a small restaurant that sells good Isaan food quite close to Soi Cowboy. Pae ordered a spicy salad with oysters or some other kind of shellfish. She put some on Nui's plate, but Nui can't eat seafood. We were all rather drunk at this point, and all shyness was gone from the girls. They were rather loud and enjoyed themselves. Pae had eaten all oysters from the salad she'd ordered, and noticed that Nui hadn't eaten hers. She asked if she could have them and picked them off her plate. Don't worry, Nui said loudly, soon you can eat my oyster! Hway is the Thai word for oyster, clam or other shellfish, but is also slang for pussy. This caused quite some amusement in the vicinity of our table. Nui had clearly gotten over her shyness…

When we got to our apartment, we sat down in the sofa, and it turned out that Pae hadn't been with a girl before, contrary to what she'd said in the bar. That was a bit of a disappointment, since it is more likely Nui would have a good experience if she was with an experienced girl. When we sat in the sofa, Nui put her hand on Pae's inner thigh and started inching it upwards. Now it was Pae's turn to be shy. I went out on the balcony for a smoke, so that they could get started without me being a distraction, but when I got back they were just talking. Nothing was apparently going to happen without me taking a more active part, so I said alright, let's go to the bedroom. We took turns showering and the girls ended up naked on the bed. A very nice sight, indeed.

They both looked at me for instructions. I told them to make out a bit and caress each other, and then Pae could move on to licking. As I was lying there beside them, watching them, I felt like I was in heaven. Nui seemed to enjoy herself, but kept looking at me all the time, to check that I was OK with it all. I told her to not worry about me, to only think about her and Pae, and Pae briefly looked up from her very enthusiastic pussy-licking to say "yes, don't worry about him". After a while, I suggested to Nui that she should position herself with her pussy above Pae's face, as if they were doing the 69. I said she didn't have to do any licking, but that it would look nice and that it would be easier for Pae to give her clit a thorough treatment.

What she said to Pae was different though: Lie down on your back and I'll lick you as well! Pae was shocked and said that no, Nui was the customer and should be taken care of – not the other way around. Nui insisted and said that I wanted them to do it this way, and she finally agreed. Them licking each other was a very, very beautiful sight. After a while, Nui got impatient and demanded that I should put on a condom and bang Pae from behind while they hugged (Pae on top). They got in position and I checked their pussies with my fingers. Pae was dry, to my surprise (she did seem very enthusiastic all the time), but Nui was soaking wet, and it wasn't saliva. I did my thing with Pae, and it was a disappointingly quick affair because of my extreme arousal from watching them play. I didn't really care since that wasn't an important part of the evening for me, but Nui was disappointed since she had been looking forward to watching it.

When we'd all calmed down and were resting in the bed, Nui suggested that Pae should stay long time instead. She agreed, and Nui spooned with Pae, with me next to Nui. I got turned on again, and so did Nui. I ended up banging her from behind while she caressed Pae and kissed her breasts while working her clit with her fingers. All in all a splendid start of my vacation!

Pae left around eight the following morning, and Nui and I went back to sleep. During the next day we talked about it quite a few times, and she said "OK, now we've tried it. This was a one time thing – I won't do it again". Later on, when we talked about it again she said that it was a pity we didn't take Pae's phone number, so we wouldn't have to shell out a lot of money at the bar the next time. So, we're back at the game of not admitting that she liked it, even though she forgets herself sometimes.

We're leaving for a quite long trip to my country tomorrow. I think we'll head out for some female-female-male interaction (and a phone number) again tonight. I need to stock up on naughtiness so we can make it through the weeks in political correctness-land.

Stickman's thoughts:

Talking with mates there seems to be a lot of this going on.