My Third Thai Adventure
Ok, I just finished a 20 day trip to the land of smiles. It was my 3rd trip over. 20 days, and sex with 40 women. I had no plans to do that. I don't consider my self to have a superman type sex drive, but the girls are just so available and right there in your face. Especially if you're in one of the hot areas of Bangkok.
I always knew that I could be with two women at once in Bangkok, but I thought, that that just wasn't my thing. I just like spending time with one nice woman. Of course, that was before this last trip. I was in a well known go-go bar in Nana Plaza. I'd had a few Heinekens, and the next thing ya know, this girl and her friend are dragging me out of there to a short time room. I shouldn't use the word "drag". I went willingly, believe me! Ha! I was so relaxed and having a good time and the girls made me feel so comfortable that I found the experience most enjoyable.
Once I broke through that forbidden mental barrier and a little bit of the nervousness, I had no problem trying a well known Bangkok club that specializes in two woman at a time. I know Stick will be tempted to type in the name here, but I'd rather not share the name of the place with everyone. It's like it was such a great experience for me, I don't want everyone to know about it. Ha! If that's your thing, it should be easy to find. I went to this place 3 times, and plan on making it a stop on each trip. So, that was 40 women and 4 nights with two at once. Ya know, I should be a travel agent and plan trips for guys. Ha!
I live in the U.S. in a northern rural area. Things are relatively boring here. Same thing, day after day. I tell my friends, that I lived more in 20 days in Bangkok, than I could live in 5 years here. I just felt so alive and carefree there.
After the 40 women in 20 days, I've been asking myself whether I am a sex addict??? I've really thought about it, and I've come to the conclusion….no, I'm just a guy. A guy who loves women. It's just that in Thailand, they are just so available, friendly, beautiful and sweet. I've also fallen in love with Asian people. They treat me so well. Maybe because I'm a westerner with some money? I don't think that's the only reason. So many have so little money, but they are so much happier and enjoy just being alive more than westerners. I feel an instant bond and closeness with them. I just feel at peace when I look into their eyes. It's like you can see into their soul. A pureness. An innocence. Even the bargirls, to me, have an inner beauty to them. I immediately can see them for who they are, where westerners have this sort of coldness to them. Am I the only one that feels this way? I get the same feeling looking at a cute little kid or baby. Maybe, it's because the Thai are so childlike?
Anyway, I'd get up and have breakfast at around noon and I'd think, well, I can wait till tonight to hook up with a woman, but why not go to a soapy bath massage place now? Or grab a cute one (freelancer) off the street for a delight in my hotel room or, go to a place famous in Bangkok for its specials.
So, that's what I did. Hey. I'm weak, I have no willpower. I'm so bad. I was with a girl at noon on my last day, and had a 3 AM trip to the airport the next morning to make my flight back home. I crawled into bed about 11 PM. I was laying there trying to sleep, and told my self, wow, I could get up, get dressed, grab a taxi to Patpong..and go upstairs to one of those BJ places in about 10 minutes, which is exactly what I did! Wow. I know I need help. Ha! Maybe a 12 step program! I have to admit though, a lot of the guys that go to Bangkok and frequent those sex areas are a motley looking bunch. Old, fat, bald. The girls sure don't seem to mind though. One bar girl told me that no man is old in Thailand! As long as the guys have the cash, they're an ATM with a penis! Ha! It's capitalism at its finest. It's a case of supply and demand. Each person gets what they want. It's just a business transaction, and the Thai girls are specialists in customer satisfaction. Maybe see you in my next adventure.
As I have often said, some guys do more in a couple of weeks than locals do in 10 years!