Stickman Readers' Submissions August 22nd, 2007

My Girlfriend Had Paid Sex With A Thai Boy…! Part 1

I am a student from Germany and visited Thailand together with my girlfriend some years ago for the first time. Claudia and I were together for three years and she never cheated on me nor did I on her.

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It was right during our first visit when I immediately recognized how much she was fascinated by young athletic Thai guys. My Claudia is a good looking 21-year old blond, a rather shy and conservative minded girl. She gets extremely jealous when I dare have a quick look at Thai girls or any other females.

However, probably women’s sexuality must be stronger than a conservative mind set: During our second visit she admitted having sexual fantasies about Thai guys, which I had already suspected for some time!

Once having ousted her fantasies and when she realized that she rather provoked a depressed reaction on my side than an outrage, I was totally surprised how she kept pushing on with her ''ideas'' with great stubbornness…to let them finally become reality! Only later she admitted that she would not have had dared to ever tell me again her fantasies, would I have reacted outraged. But my reaction obviously boosted her self-confidence to try to let her fantasies come somehow true and not to bury them under feelings of shame and guilt. From this point onwards something changed between us: From day to day she showed more and more openly her interest in Thai men…obviously interpreting my embarrassing helplessness to cope with the situation as silent consent (…which is was not !). There was less and less hiding of her sexual desires and no more false excuses for me…!

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None of our friends nor I would have believed that she would do nearly anything to make love with a young Thai and even pay for sex! Not my Claudia, but needless to say, after a week or so she was mentally ready to make an approach to a young Thai…and yes:


In a nutshell: The two last nights of our holidays she spent with her young 'tiger' (…that is how she called her Thai boy later). It took me some time to find the courage to put this report on the internet. I do not like to reveal all the details, they are embarrassing and I know, a lot of farang and Thai guys out there will laugh at me: (…are you all so sure, what your farang girl really thinks / wants?)

Nonetheless, the story in brief: After she persuaded me to join her out to some boys bars on the last days of our holidays and after she had long lasting eye-contact with Thai men, she finally became confident enough to roam these places alone and tried an approach, which I would find out about very soon.

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It was two nights before we were scheduled to fly home, when she got a call on her mobile while we were spending the afternoon at our hotel pool at the Golden Palace Hotel, off Sukhumvit Road in Bangkok. She became very exited…and after a while asked me, if I can live with the fact that she intends to date a Thai boy that night, who she had approached cautiously a night before. I was very jealous but I saw in her eyes how extremely exited she was to date the guy and we both knew well …tonight it will be for paid sex. I asked her ’Claudia, are you really sure…?!’ She swallowed and nodded silently and said ‘Rainer….it has nothing to do with you….it is simply…’.

She intended to take the Thai boy out for some romantic dinner and then come back to the Golden Palace Hotel. She as well as I felt more secure to let it happen in our place, rather then in some unknown seedy place. At the Golden Palace Hotel we were sure that outward guests are all registered, when staying in a guest’s room. On the one hand Claudia wanted to have her first paid sex with a young Thai stranger in secure, comfortable and familiar surroundings, but on the other hand, she wanted me to be safely excluded and not to spoil in any way what was meant to be her perfect sex. (Later she admitted that she was at this time very insecure, if I, in the end, would not lose my temper and do something stupid, respectively totally freak out in the hotel floors once after I have realised that she is naked on the sheets with a Thai boy!). Strange enough, instead of my burning jealousy, I simply assured her that I will respect her privacy…probably instinctively sensing that my girlfriend was expecting me to no longer be an obstacle to her very special sexual desire.

Before she went out that evening Claudia rented a second room on another floor for the two remaining nights in Bangkok, careful as she was, without revealing the room number to me.

Later that night we left together the Golden Palace Hotel, turned from Soi 1 on to the Sukhumvit Road. In a pharmacy near Siam Square my Claudia bought the obligatory condoms. I thought desperately jealous‘….for some lucky Thai penis!’ We stepped out into the warm air of a busy Bangkok night. She checked again nervously her own room key, and the condoms in her handbag. There was something like a ‘oohh, please understand!’ in her eyes when she gave me a hasty kiss and then we separated. I saw her long blond hair slowly disappearing into the crowd. ‘There goes my girl…,’ I thought, ‘… to meet her date…. and I to follow her bitter-sweet advice ‘…to relax and watch a movie.’

I sat frustrated in one of the cinema complexes at Siam Square and then spent a poor night in an empty double-bed, not daring to imagine what was happening behind one of the doors on an upper floor.

This is already nearly the end of my report. I did not ask my girlfriend what she paid for the ‘service’ she received. (Claudia remained silent on those nights and I learned to respect her privacy).

But reading all the confusing and contradicting articles, news, etc. on Thai men, let me stress the following:


I do –not know– what the Thai guy did do her, how many times he lustfully penetrated my girlfriend,


I do –not know– how many orgasms erupted her heated body when he was on top of Claudia,


I do –not know–…her screams….her joy!


I do not know about the size of a Thai penis and other qualities they have or they do not have.

…and I am not interested in all that bla…bla…bla!

But whatever they did,


I –know– that I never saw her so PLEASED and SATISFIED the next morning with that young Thai at the breakfast table.

They saw me approaching, looked at each other, then Claudia and the Thai gave me a humiliating smile and invited me to join breakfast at their table. By touching my girlfriend openly in front of me and watching her enjoying his hand on her naked leg, the young Thai shattered the rest of my self-confidence. He immediately made it absolutely clear that he would stay in the ‘driver’s seat’ for the rest of our holidays, having good sex and being paid for it! There was not much to say or to ask….all of us knew very well:


It happened all so fast that after the holiday I am still emotionally struggling with the situation. Claudia made it clear to me that there will be 'follow ups' with Thai boys in coming holydays…

For me is important to send this report to all those, who still believe that

1. Thai guys are not as good us other lovers, and to those,

2. who still believe that women sexuality is restricted to certain pattern / types. Claudia overcame her shyness…and finally did only that openly, what many girls, housewives, etc. might secretly think.

She is -NOT- a slut. <Of course not, that didn’t cross one single reader’s mindStick> That is why I accept her preferences and will stay together with her, nevertheless which Thai boy she picks up next time (…and she is looking very much forward to that ‘evil sin’ again!)


Stickman's thoughts:

I have always thought that one of the reasons for having a steady relationship was knowing that you go home to a clean pussy. And I simply don’t think that you have that “guarantee” any more. There’s something really weird about this situation and I am awfully surprised that you are so blasé about it!

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