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Money For Love

  • Written by Anonymous
  • August 22nd, 2005
  • 6 min read


Black Pagoda Patpong Bangkok

I love it when a woman is surprised that a caring, good looking man would actually use a prostitute. Of course there was always something wrong with him – he must have had low self-esteem to begin with; I just didn’t know it at the time.

I know this is a stretch because I certainly don’t know your ex, but I would guess his story about being desperate to have someone close to him was for your benefit. My feeling is he needed to sow his seed without any feelings or emotions attached. Obviously you were still talking to each other, therefore still friends. He was aware of how this revelation physically bothered you and he wanted to save his friendship with you, so figured he would say something that you may be able to cling to and understand somewhat. Granted, again, I don’t know him; you do, but this makes more sense to me.

Wake up! Men are different than women. Always have and always will be. Why do you think it’s the oldest profession in the world? It’s almost like farting! There are only two types of people in the world – Those that fart and those that lie. Pretty much the same thing with men and prostitutes. Every single man in the world is game for a prostitute at one point in their lives whether they admit it or not. Why would we use prostitutes. Yes, some are looking for that affection that they sorely need to help build up their self-esteem, but most are doing what men do – sowing their seed. We have to! It’s part of our make-up and what better way to do it than with a prostitute. Let’s see:

1. I get what I need
2. I know the price up front
3. I don’t have to worry about baggage when I’m done

Charlie Sheen said it perfectly several years back; “I don’t pay them to have sex, I pay them to leave when we’re done.” That is the beauty of prostitution. It’s PURE. And yes, I use the word PURE because I believe it is more pure than the typical relationship. Our Farang women says that you can’t pay a women for companionship if it’s not prostitution. I say BULLSHIT!! It happens all of the time with men all over the world. Successful (I’m talking mega-millionaires and billionaires) are known the world over for their “trophy” wives. In many (if not most) of these cases, there is no “love” involved. Yes, there may be an attraction, and yes, some feelings and respect, but LOVE? Give me a break. These girls are also 20, 25, 30 years their junior, and their husbands are still playing around with prostitutes and getting some on the side. Why? It is in our make-up. These high roller executive types certainly do not lack for self-esteem. Hell, many would say just the opposite; that they are extremely cocky and arrogant. The women are it in for the almighty $$$ and the men are in it for the trophy wife.

Pro athletes, CEOs, actors. All of them are caught each year paying for sex and these are people that are at the top of their game and certainly not low on self-esteem. Thailand, the Philippines, Cuba, Eastern Europe, Central and South America all offer these same type of opportunities to those of us that may not play in the same game as the billionaires. Here we get the beauty of the prostitutes that the high rollers are paying $1,000 – $10,000 a night for in the West at a fraction of the cost without having to resort to the crack induced whores on the streets of the west. That is who I would be looking at for low self-esteem. Those men that are utilizing the services of the crack whores on the streets of western cities. Now that is disgusting!

As for the implication that non-prostitute women can’t be bought, I again say BULLSHIT. It’s just not as PURE. We talked about the billionaire club above, but what about the typical mainstream relationship. In this case, I must wine and dine a woman and show them I am genuine, I can support her, I can raise a family. If that is not buying a woman’s feelings and affections then I don’t know what is. It’s just a different way of doing it. If I had a dollar for every woman acquaintance I have had that would like to Fxxx the construction worker or bartender because he was so handsome and sexy, but would never date him seriously because he didn’t have a steady job that could support her wants and desires, then I would be on my way to my first billion.

Now mind you, I don’t mind wining and dining my women. There is some challenge to that. You always wonder, is it 1 date? 2 dates? 3 dates? before I get into her pants? Besides, it is what society demands in being respectful of a woman and if I’m truly attracted to that woman, I am going to do what it takes to win her heart, but it certainly isn’t PURE and it certainly involves MONEY. Just a different way of paying for the sex.

Let’s put it a different way. I know that when I first ask out Ms. Western woman for that first date, she is already looking at me and sizing me up for my potential. I’m looking at her and sizing her up for sex. It’s that simple. 2nd date, if she goes out with me, is because she liked the first date and wants to continue to size me up. My (and most males) thoughts are what can I say tonight to sell her on me (and thus remove her panties). Here is where we begin to run into problems. From the male perspective, I may start noticing things about this potential relationship I don’t like (it could be anything – maybe she is just looking to get married, maybe high maintenance). Now I’m thinking SHIT, I just wasted two dates worth of $$$ on this woman; I know it’s not going to last, but I still haven’t gotten any pussy. So, I’m left with this dilemma, call it a loss of $$$ and go home or continue to pour on the charm until I can get your panties off and then call it quits. Of course when I do that, I have the other problems to deal with. That of dumping you without any emotional tirades on your part.

Again, I come back to the PURITY of the Thai woman. I know what I’m going to get. I know if I like it, I can get more tomorrow night and the next until I see something better. I know how much it will cost. And I know if I’m bored after the first night, then sayonara! No strings, no problems! Just pay and go. What a nice, simple, PURE, transaction. Not to mention a nice stress-free life!

Yes, there are some men who have low self-esteem and there are some women that have low self-esteem, but to say that only men with low self-esteem use prostitutes is ludicrous. I feel very sorry for you, because you are in for a lifetime of trying to understand men.

Please don’t read too much into this. I am not saying every man is going to cheat on you with a prostitute or other woman once you are in a serious relationship, because most honest, stand-up guys are going to be faithful to you once in a serious relationship. But just remember, he had a different life before he met you!

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