Anonymous

Soi Cowboy Gogo Bar Trip Report, July, 2023

Ko Samui and Phuket, 2023 Trip Report

Wild Flowers Never Die

Thoughts On Less Sex

These Days In Bangkok & Pattaya

September / October Trip Report

Report From The Front

Bangkok Revisited

Bangkok, First Half of March, 2022

Secret Daytime Hook-ups, Thai-Style

Back To Bangkok

Almost Ready To Ring The Bell….

Covid Killing The Thailand We Knew

Attempting To Meet Miss Right

A Thai Girl in Frankfurt

You Can’t Save Everyone

A Cambodian Love Story Part 2

A Cambodian Love Story Part 1

Ode to Tina’s Bar

Sometimes It Takes A Cassandra

Returning to Thailand as a “Normal” Tourist Part 4

Check Bill

Thoughts from ASQ

Returning to Thailand as a “Normal” Tourist Part 3

Returning to Thailand as a “Normal” Tourist Part 2

The Grateful Eightfull

Returning to Thailand as a “Normal” Tourist Part 1

Thailand, The First Time, Part 4

Has 2020 Really Been An Annus Horribilis?

Thailand, The First Time, Part 2

Thailand, The First Time, Part 1

The Real Cost Of Beer In Thailand

Boulevards Of Busted Dreams

Wild Times

A Clever Tom Cat Meets A Cleverer Kitten

Will I Visit Thailand Again?

Living In Rural Thailand, So What …

Let’s Not Be Too Presumptuous On A Covid-19 Vaccine

Can The Full Moon Party Ever Be Revived?

Thailand, The First Time, Part 3

Living Up-Country Isn’t …

Thailand Re-enchanted?

Rebuttal To “No, Thailand Will Not Be There Again”

Thailand Will Be There Again

Saving Face Is Not So Healthy

Somebody Is About To Wake Up

Alternative State Quarantine (ASQ) in Bangkok

Bruce, Somchai And Elvis, A Chance Encounter In Australia

Lost ATM Card

Are Thai Bargirls Different From Us?

A Covid Impact Story

The Largest Prison On Earth, Home

A Post Lockdown Night Out In Bangkok

Ram Thai Dancer

P4P in Singapore

Philippines – The Wild West of South-East Asia

My Story Part 2

Bargirl or Chimera?

Covid-19 Trip To Bangkok

Last Trip Before Lockdown

Pattaya Inferno

Pattaya Tourist

A Yukon Miner Visits the Land of Smiles

COVID The Bar Killer

I Fucked My Way Through 30 Years In Thailand

How Thailand’s Bars Reopen: Say Goodbye to Anonymity

Still Locked Down In The Philippines

Welcome to the Virtual Gogo Bar, Part 5

What’s Old is New: Great Expectations in Central Java

Welcome to the Virtual Gogo Bar, Part 4

Welcome to the Virtual Gogo Bar, Part 3

Lockdown In The Philippines

Welcome to the Virtual Gogo Bar, Part 2

Memo to Antipodean Prime Ministers

Manila in 1986

Welcome to the Virtual Gogo Bar, Part 1

Bangkok Don Juan, Part 5

A Little Social Anthropology

Some Memories Of The 90s Recession

My Experience Trying To Help Out During Covid-19

Locked Down But Not Quite Out…

50 Beautiful Girls and One Ugly One

The Crow of Chao Phraya in Lockdown

Those Were The Good Ol’ Days

Here I Stand Head In Hand

Those Were the Days

Pattaya’s Future?

If You Want To Help, Here’s An Idea

Should Covid-19 Lock-Down In Bangkok Be Relaxed Soon?

I Love Little Pussy

Lock Down Indonesia Versus Thailand

A Thai Wife In The UK

Bangkok Today

Repatriation For Beginners

I Have a Dream

The End Of The World As We Know It – And I Feel Fine!

The Quality Of Thai Doctors

Short Time, Long Time, Good Time

Bangkok Don Juan, Part 4

You Are Not The Victim

Bangkok Don Juan, Part 3

No Fool Like An Old Fool, Am I Just Another Stupid John? Part 2

The Maintenance of Things

No Fool Like An Old Fool, Am I Just Another Stupid John?

The Cleopatra, Patpong

Bangkok Don Juan, Part 1

Congratulations, You Are A Winner

Bargirl Advice Request

Pattaya This Week

The Philippines Alternative

Makha Bucha Day in Bangkok Part 3

Makha Bucha Day in Bangkok Part 2

Makha Bucha Day in Bangkok Part 1

These Are The Good Ol’ Days

Dating in the Philippines Part 7

Out Of The Blue

The Stack Theory

Angeles City: Same Same But Different Part 6

Dating in the Philippines Part 6

The Unconventional Adventures Of A Straight Woman in Bangkok (Part 2)

Angeles City: Same Same But Different Part 5

Angeles City: Same Same But Different Part 4

Angeles City: Same Same But Different Part 3

Angeles City: Same Same But Different Part 2

Angeles City: Same Same But Different Part 1

The Customer Is Always Wrong!

No Regrets At All

Bangkok Byron is Back in Bangkok!

The Unconventional Adventures of a Straight Woman in Bangkok

Thailand Nowadays

Married In The Philippines

Cherry Girls

How It Really Is In The Philippines

Heartbreaker

My Story

Trouble On Walking Street

Being Stopped / Security In Bangkok

Bangkok Byron Is Back And In Subic!

Thai Bar Observations From The Last 3 Weeks

Of Limbos And Lathers

Tale of an Online Romance, Part 2

Strumpets And Spooks Are Cut From The Same Cloth

Pricing In The Bars

Parallels?

Dating in the Philippines Part 5

The Value of Western Massages

Introspection and Reflection in Sin-City

The Herstory of a Bargirl

Not Smiling in the Land of Smiles

Bargain Bonk

Taking Miss Thailand Home

Lost in Translation

Thailand’s True National Treasure

Forced Out Of Thailand By A Visa Issue

Bangkok Bars Today

My Experience Being Stopped And Searched By Bangkok Police

Goodbye Thailand, Hello USA

Bangkok Immigration Visa Extension Report

Lawless Police

So Long, And Thanks For All The Fish

Retirement, Thailand Or New Zealand

TM30 Blog

Why Ride The Waves Is Worse Than Everyone He Hates

Thoughts From A Bangkok Retiree

Dating in the Philippines Part 3

Burglarized in Bangkok

Retirement in Thailand

Bangkok Trip Report

Bangkok Bar Managers, Bosses And Owners

Mayflies and the Biological Imperative

Expectations Not Met, For Her

And The Illusion Was Shattered

Errol of Judgement

Dating in the Philippines

Idiots Messing Up The Thai Experience

Married Guy Wanting A Good Girl As A Girlfriend In Thailand

Patpong Bargirl Experience

My First Trip To Phnom Penh

Parasites and Hosts

Another Bangkok Story

A Bangkok Story

Red Pill Moment

Dr Donna’s Updated Advice on Sexual Health in Thailand

I Broke My Rules

Pattaya, March 2018

South-East Asia, 2018

Home And Back Home

Home

Goodbye 20th Century, Goodbye Stickman

Final Thoughts and Anecdotes

My Thai Story

Kitchen with Solhy

A Perfect Plonker

A Perfect Life

A 22-Year-Old’s Perspective On Thailand

South-East Asian Women – The Best Salespeople On Earth

A Chick I Met In Pattaya

Bangkok Massage (2)

The Future Of Mongering

Broke Farangs

Phuket Decline Or Transition

Bangkok Pattaya Part 2

Bangkok Pattaya Part 1

Two And A Half Weeks In The Land Of Smiles

Homage To The Nana Hotel

A Breath Of Fresh Air

Colombia As An Alternative To Thailand

Bangkok Massage

Then There Was Buck

Experiences of a Bangkok Bargirl

Never Trust A Bargirl From Surin

Paying For It

An Extraordinary Sunday

Calvino And Moore Are Better Than Ever!

Regrets

Vignettes And Reflections In The Time Of Mourning

My Story of M

Change in the City

Elite Card Feedback

So You Want A Thai Girlfriend Or Bride

First Time Phuket Pattaya Part 2

Miss Vung Tau

My 100K Thailand Sexpedition

Can’t Believe It Took Me So Long To Visit The…..

Dancing Girl Part 2

First time Phuket, Pattaya Part 1

A Very Unpleasant 12 Hours in Bangkok

Ladyboys, Freaks Of Nature

On Gogo Bar Layouts

Twister Bar (Where Rainbow 4 Used To Be) Is The Absolute Worst

What’s Killing Or Administering Slow Lingering Death To The Great Bars Of Bangkok

Sidney’s Free Tutorial on Deportment and Grooming

Dr Donna’s Advice on Sexual Health In Bangkok

I Want to Show Her the Other Side of the Door

Yangon – Travel story

Last Chance

Thai Girlfriend to the USA Stories

Serial Massages in Bali, Indonesia

More on Internet Dating

Right Place, Right Time For Misses Right

Changes Are Life As We Know It

My Excursion Finale & So, You Want to Marry a Thai Girl Do You?

Dancing Girl

First World Clarity

Bangkok: “The Girlfriend Experience”

My 12-Day Excursion to Thailand

Narrowing it Down – Ignorance is Bliss

A Tour of South East Asia, Part 12

My 12-Day Excursion to Thailand

Marriage To My Thai wife, No Regrets

Beneath The Surface

A Tour of South East Asia, Part 11

Fallen For A Thai Freelancer

New Year in Pattaya (1)

A Tour of South East Asia, Part 10

A Tour of South East Asia, Part 9

Knocked up in Bangkok!

Who’s Going To Laugh At Mick Jagger

Why The Barfine Era Won’t End

From USA – My View

Medical Debacle in Chiang Mai

A Tour of South East Asia, Part 8

Shooting Off At The Mouth 2 – Health Precautions

In Defence of Thailand, Nostalgia and Older Guys

A Day Trip to Koh Larn Island

Mangomanbangkok

Thailand Tragic

A Tour of South East Asia, Part 7

Post Script to “I broke all the Rules”

My New Life in Korat

Thailand – The Next Generation’s Perspective

Sukhumvit Stroke

Who Stole Thailand’s Sanuk?

What Happens To Bargirls When They Leave The Industry?

Spotting The Fakes: Trannys & Dolls vs. Real Women

Back to Jakarta Part 6

Reflections on Past Life

A Cautionary Tale

What Is Teaching English In Thailand Really Like?

7 PM Dinner in Pattaya

3 Predictions About The Bar Industry’s Future

Health Consequences of Working in the Bar Industry

Can’t Shake The Suspicions…

Hello Pretender

Online Dating – A Final Word – Yes, FINAL…!

Life After Thailand

How I Came To Stop Worrying About ‘Face’, And Love South-East Asia

It’s Pathetic

Back to Jakarta Part 5

Perceptions of Jakarta

My Soi 6 Electrical Engineer

Back to Jakarta (But Now In Thailand) Part 4

Gin (จิน)

Mutiny On The Bounty Re-Enact Again And Again In Thailand – A Broken Dream

Back in Jakarta Part 3

We Gotta Get Out Of This Place

An Explosion Waiting to Happen

I Married A Ladyboy!

Thai Family in the UK, November 2015

My Chiang Mai Girlfriend

It’s (Almost) Always About The Money

An Alternative Career

Cast Ashore

My Experience With Thai Girlfriend’s Face

Full Moon Madness

Good Grief, HH Harry

Thai Girlfriend Advice

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – A Few Conclusions

Transfer of Thai Land

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 20

The Psychology Of A Delusional Monger

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 19

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 18

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 17

Harry, Give It A Rest

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 16

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 15

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 14

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 13

Thai Ladies, Do Yourself A Favour, Part 3

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 12

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 11

Thai Ladies, Do Yourself A Favor

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 10

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 9

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 8

Thai Ladies, Do Yourself A Favour, Part 2

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 7

Rabbit

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 6

Bargirl Advice Please

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 5

Thai Ladies, Do Yourself A Favour

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 4

Soon To Be Girlfriend

Eden Club Visit

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 3

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 2

Are There Still Good Girls Waiting For The White Knight?

Online Dating – Can It ‘Work’…? – Part 1

My Comments on “I Fell For A Massage Girl”

The Thai Massage Phenomenon Down Under

Thailand Bar Girls, Gogo Girls, Freelancers, Hi-So Girls, Escorts And Any Other P4P I Forgot

Shoddy Reporting Or Pure Vilification Of Pattaya’s Lady-Boys Part 2?

10 Myths About Mongers (and their Thai Bargirls) – Part 3

Shoddy Reporting Or Pure Vilification Of Pattaya’s Lady-Boys?

Hope Kills

Fell For A Walking Street Bargirl!

Are All Women Built The Same The World Over?

Thai Be, Or Not Thai Be

Back To Basics

Pattaya Pickpocket Blowjobs and “Russian” Drink Scams

Is Thailand Becoming Very Expensive for Euro Citizens?

The Island Part 4, The Misfit’ s Final Rant About Thailand

My Story

Another Farang Statistic?

Waiting For Arrival

Belonging

Wife Consents to Other Lady and Steps Up Game

Why Stickman Will Be Back

And The BS Continues…

I Won’t Be Back

Simon

How To Take An Uncooperative Taxi in Bangkok

Why Do We Do It?

Older Men Attracted to Smaller Women

Simon’s ‘Why I Will Never Marry A Thai: Intellectual Curiosity’

Greed And Customer Relations

My First Day of Online Dating

Why I will Never Marry a Thai: Intellectual Curiosity

First Two Times in Bangkok – Part One

Thailand No Way Part 3

A 30-Year Old Virgin

Patpong Bargirl Experience

Thailand No Way Part 2

What Not To Do In Thailand

Decision Time

Thailand No Way Part 1

Ramblings in Support of Thailand

Viva Vallarta, An Alternative Retirement Destination

On Muscled Guys and Indonesian Girls

The Money

Nine Years On

Survey Results: Western Expats in the Phillippines

The Island Part 3, About Thai Women

The Best Places To Live

Why I Keep Coming Back

Music in Gogo Bars

Another Good Thai Wife Story

Et tu, Brute?

The Island Part 2 The Rain Season

Thai Women, My Thoughts

Old Farts, Young Tarts And Insights On The Myth Of “Asian Values”

The Real Deal? Or Not?

Deviant Thailand And Loving Chiang Mai

The Island

My Last Visit To The Land of Smiles

Vietnamese Adventure Part Deux

Back In Bangkok For Two Glorious Weeks

A Spiritual Journey

My Journey Out Of Mongering

Mongering While Hitched? That Is The Question

My Take on Thai Massage Parlours

A Lucky Man?

A Few Days In Yangon

Up To You, Up to Me

The Twists and Turns of Love Through TLL and Skype

Do We Really Need More ‘Thainess’?

Observations From a Returning G.I. Who Was in Thailand During The War

Sukhumvit Machete

Fisking An Ugly American

The Lady-boy-ization of the Western Female

The Boss’s Daughter

There Is A Way II

Thai Girlfriend in the West

Destination Rehab

Hopefully There Is A Way

Why “Wai”? Are you a Thai?

Venture Sponsorship – 6

Venture Sponsorship – 5

In The Eye of the Beholder

My Trip To Korat

Rchael, Oh Rachel

Venture Sponsorship – 4

Venture Sponsorship – 3

An African Perspective

Venture Sponsorship – 2

Venture Sponsorship – 1

Bangkok Trip

Thai Temple, Raynham

Train Modelling in Thailand

When the Thai Bug Exits the System

“Why I Never Married A Thai”, Thoughts From A Thai Woman

Phuket 1998

Top 10 Reasons Thai Gogo Bars Are Failing

3 Days 2 Nights Screwing Spree

Does Thailand Want Retirees?

Impressions of Phnom Penh

Thai Girl Pregnancy Scam Follow-Up

Business As Usual

The Tangible Shift

The Precept

On Searching For a Thai Wife and the Calculus of the Nightlife Industry

A Suit, Sir?

Thailand Ping Pong Show

Internet Dating in Thailand

Jason, Was I A Moron?

CiderHeadBrit – A Solution

Marrying a Massage Girl

Medical Insurance in Thailand

Burned by a Woman from Isaan

Thai Family Moves to the UK

Response to CiderheadBrit

And Some More

Two Days In A Life

Crazy Bitch

In Defence Of Bangkok (And The Biergarten Too)

Every Day You Wake Up Is A Good Day

My Thailand Experience

Stung Like a Jelly Fish

Farangs Not Yet Made The Grade To Expat Status

Tales Of A Pakistani Punter

Having A Thai Retirement – Who Can Afford It?

Thailand’s Bars Today

Wonderful, An Encore!

What Has Changed

Angeles City Revisited

Attach Photos Please

Death Lurks around Every Corner – Highway Driving in Thailand

A Vietnamese Adventure Part 1

20 Years of Thailand Vacations, And Still Loving It!

The Farm

Leaving Thailand

What’s Up With Patong and Bangkok?

Aussie Moving to Thailand

Amsterdam vs Thailand

Two New Thailand Scams

Buying a Beer – Are You Getting What You Paid For?

The Future of Bangkok Gogo Bars

Every Time I See a Western Man I Feel I Want to Vomit

Variation on Pregnancy / Baby Scam?

An Oldie but Goodie

Bangkok Nightlife, Gogo Bars & Pubs and Foreign Managers Needed

The Decline of Bangkok’s Girlie Bars

Memo To Bangkok Gogo Bar Owners

The Women Of Bangkok, A Different Perspective

Thailand Girlfriend Nightmare Situation Response

Some Feedback on the State of the Bar Industry in Thailand – from an Amateur’s Observation

Does She Love Him?

So Last Weekend Here In The Middle East Was, Umm, Interesting

I Don’t Get It

After a Year or so in Thailand

Delightful Andalucía – Sevilla, Cadíz, Ana María

Why It’s Different This Time

Rants, Raves and Ramblings

Scarlett O’Hara

Sons of Heaven

You Are All Deluded, Me Too Probably

The Story of Nantisa

My Normal Thai Lady

Basic Thai Bargirl Economics

The View From Here

The Bangkok Political Situation

Dear John

Time To Spawn?

My Curious Academic Career in Thailand

My Girlfriend Turns Out To Be A Post-op Ladyboy

Paradise Maybe Already Lost

Bangkok Hellcats

Farewell to Pattaya

I Nearly Got Scammed in Hua Hin

Thai Bargirl Advice

A New Year and a New Sea View Room in Pattaya

All I Want for Christmas is a Facial Mole and a Lazy Eye

My Chiang Mai Thai Massage Experience

Christmas Eve in Pattaya, a 27,000 Baht Day

El Nido

Almost Scored An Own Goal

Bangkok Bars Upddate

My Thai Nom

I Might Only Marry A Working Woman

A Response to 10 Months On

10 Months On

Why Don’t We Hear About Poor Baggage Handling At Thai Airports?

Life in Thailand Through my Eyes

It Is What It Is

Thai Time

Mia Noi With A Gun, Knife, And Connections

My Thai Coyote Dancer Obsession

Advice: Isaan Love Gone Wrong

Not All Thai Girls Are Poor

Culture Shock

Pretender Rebuttal

Thailand A Place Where Cultures Clash A Little

The Boys in Brown, Back in the Day

Winning In The Thai Labour Court

Some Bangkok History

Bangkok as Relative Value Proposition

Apartment Hunting in Bangkok

Middle Age Rambling

In The Universal Defence Of The Bargirl, You And Me

Thailand Makes Sense

Ghost Made Her Cheat, Clarification and Update

Koh Samui and the Full Moon Party

My Life

My Aussie Visa Rant

A Thai Woman’s Application for an Aussie Visa

Another Kind Of Scam – Airport Taxi Scam

Chiang Mai Heaven

Ghost Made Her Cheat!

Mask Book Excerpt

Contractual Sex

Understanding Thai Culture

The Farangs of Thailand

So Many Feels

G-Clubs – Useful Palliation for a Mid-life Crisis

A Real Estate Agent And A Lawyer On My Side… Possibly A Few Mistakes… And A New Condo!

The Japanese Tattoos in Patpong

A Story Of Everyday Life In Bangkok

Real Estate Agents in Thailand

My Thailand Story

The Old Hand

Bangkok Apartment Hunting – Oh The Irony

Phuket

Other Opportunities For Finding A Friend

Another reply to “Viewpoint of A Southeast Asian American Woman”

The Good, The Bad And The Ugly

Why Are The Angeles City Bars Being Raided And Why There Are No More Bar Fines Available

Life in Suburbia

Three Sweet Girls

Vaccinations in Thailand

Response to a Southeast Asian American Woman’s Viewpoint

Mangoes Are Not The Only Fruit

Viewpoint of A Southeast Asian American Woman

Breakfast at 8 PM

My Experience With Thai Dating

Do Arab Bars Habitually Fleece Drunken Customers?

My Love for Thailand is Superficial

Is She Really A Isaan Farm Girl?

The Once And Future Paradise

One Born Every Day?

Bilbo Baggins Does Thailand

My Tuppence Worth

Response to: Totally I Fell in Love

Delightful Iran 2 – Upcountry

Totally I Fell in Love

Patpong

Thai Ladies Step Up

Delightful Thai Ladies – And Logic

Love or Fun?

Bangkok Lost

Ladyboy Bars in Pattaya

Caveman’s Rant About Philippines Immigration

Boracay Trip Report

Overuse Of The Word “Farang”

Delightful Iran – Tehran

Response to Second Chance in Life

Personality Traits of a Filipina Bar Girl

1 Of 3 Reasons

Birthday in Thailand

Hepatitis B

Lesson Learned At Last – An Insight In to Dealings In Nana Plaza

Answer To: Why Learn Thai?

Cambodia by Bike

Farang Men / Thai Women — Another Perspective from a Farang

Dear Farang

Dreams of a Butterfly

Misconceptions!

Recurring Theme In Submissions Which Is Beginning To Irritate Me

My Little Noi

Please Stop Moaning

Advice on Winning Over a Freelance Escort – My Answer

Advice on Winning Over a Freelance Escort

She May Be A Bargirl

A Farang’s Lament For Don Mueang

Pattaya and Thailand, My Opinions and Observations

Tum Le Khao Kob & Krabi Ao Nang

Carpe Diem

Travels in Vietnam

Are Vietnamese People Really Rude?

The Golden Days

Top Ten (Mis-)Conceptions Of Vietnam – How Can We Explain The 5% Return Rate To This Country?

In Response To The Recent Posting ‘Thai Girlfriend Advice’ By Anonymous

Reply to Thai Girlfriend Advice

Building A House in Thailand

The End of the World is Neigh

LOS

Thai Girlfriend Advice

Building Your Mrs. A Mansion

Illusions

30 Days in Siam Part 2

It’s Not What You See, It’s How You See It

Nana Plaza This Week

30 Days in Siam

Online Dating – Relationship Armageddon?

My Thai Wife with Money Back Guarantee

12th Trip – 1st GFE

Briffault’s Law

Who Is Preying Upon Whom To The Greater Extent?

Rejection Of Ideals

Just Don’t Make Mongrels in Thailand!

In Support Of (Some) Women

Thoughts On Being Done Over By A Filipina

Thoughts About Sin Sot

Psychology

What I did on my Trip to Bangkok

My First Thailand Bargirl Experience (Good)

Thailand, And The Stereotype Of Male Visitors

For Young Canadian With a Thai Baby

One Crazy as Hell Night in Bangkok

Thailand Trip Report 4 of 4

Online Dating Outside of Thailand

Thailand Trip Report 3 of 4

Is There Life After Prostitution

Stopovers to and from India (Stopover on the way Home)

Help Needed – The Cost of a Thai Baby

Marriage and Divorce in Thailand

A Single Tear

Stickman Thai Girl Story Similarities

Giving Farangs a Bad Name

Thailand Trip Report 2 of 4

Stopovers to and from India

The Legend of Thermae

Thailand Trip Report 1 of 4

Thai Education

My Bangkok Anabolic Steroids Story

A Christmas Tale

Our Day Is Over

Instinct – Reply to Bokbefok

Barfines, Bargirls and Others

Another Thai Bargirl Story (A Happy One!)

Advice for Lost Kiwi

Thailand with a Purpose?

My Good Wife Story

Of Course We Are Better Than They

Thai Girlfriend Troubles

A Cheap Lesson

Stopovers to and from India

Analysing the Phenomena of “The Pattaya Flying Club”

Loy and the Garnet Ring

My Thai Girlfriend

The Caveman Syndrome

A Very Hi-So Thai Girl

A Life Of Sanuk

Sequel to Help Needed Understanding A Thai Girlfriend

Please Help Me Stop This Woman From Killing You

Bar Girl History / Story – It’s Not Just About Sex

Stopped 3 Times In 3 Days!

How to Get a Myanmar Passport

A Reflection, 3 Years On From My First Visit To Thailand

If You Have Not Figured It Out Yet Stickman Totally Rocks

Sukhumvit Soi 22 Police Check

A Reply To Jayson

Me and my Friend, Aki

Is That Rubber Hose More Bark Than Bite?

A Trophy Wife From Thailand

Greener Pastures or Opposites Attract?

In Praise Of The Bargirl Experience

Mod

How Does One Help A Whore-Sel In Distress?

Reply to FarangDave: Thai Movies

HIV, A Close Call

Thailand, A South African’s Perspective

My Thai Wife and Her Platonic Friend

Phitsanulok and History

Palawan Trip Report

Fat Old Farangs in Vests Ewww

Reply To “Can A Thai Woman Be Really Happy In Farang World?”

Can A Thai Woman Be Really Happy In Farang World?

Love and Marriage

Lower Bar Standards

Thailand’s Doomsday Approaches

How You Should Or Should Not Bin Your Thai Girlfriend

About Nok, My First Thai Girlfriend

What is it about Thailand?

Help Needed Understanding A Thai Girlfriend

My Own Private Dancer

The Life

Response to Submission “Up To You” By Korski

Friends of Nana Entertainment Plaza (F.O.N.E.P.)

Mai Pen Rai

Amusing Things To Do In Pattaya When You Are Bored

Dating Vietnamese girls – A reply to Johnson

Internet Dating and the Unbeliever

A Mekong Memory

Thai Bargirl Help Needed!

You Might Be A Buffalo

Why I Prefer To Have An Asian Girlfriend – Another Reply To Jayson

A Dump Called Nana – Another View

Orchard Tower Singapore

Reply To Jayson

Living in the Philippines

Farang Men Who Hate Farang Women

What I Learned from Thailand

My Visit Of The Golden Mount And A Little Scam Story

Jakarta Diamond

Rangoon

In Defence of Thai Ladies

Pattaya Today

Pretty Woman

Siem Reap

So You Want To Marry A Thai Prostitute?

Korean Hotel in Angeles City

Biology 102

Bangkok Baby, Sample Chapter

Biology 101

Bangkok vs. Manila

Larry Part 3

It’s My Life, My Story

Western Expats in the Philippines: Why They Migrate and Marry Locals and How it all Works Out

Chiang Mai Part 2

The Former Chiang Mai Nightlife

A Reply To “Arguments In The Thailand V Farangland Debate That Lack Validity”

Chiang Mai

Visitor from Thailand

Yangon, First Impressions

Want the GFE? Bring the BFE!

Arguments In The Thailand V Farangland Debate That Lack Validity

Australian Escorts Versus Thailand Bar Girls

Stand Up Comedy, Mr. Somebody

I’m On Your Side, Professor

Thai Wife Problems, Help!

The Professor Flunks Logic

An Open-Letter to American Women

Thai Bargirl in the USA

Thai Girlfriend Thoughts / Advice

Bangkok, Tipping Point

Fresh-Off-The-Plane Farang

A Letter from Nowhere Part Two

1 Year In Thailand – Lessons On Business, People And Love

On Pattaya And The Future Of Bardom

HIV And Genetics – FACT: I’m “Delta-32”, And I Am Immune

A Letter from Nowhere Part One

Hiv Infection In Africa – Sorry Big Boy, Wrong Again!

Give Isaan A Break

Plan B With Benefits

Seeking Thai Bargirl Advice

HIV Beliefs And Psychology

Immigration

How To Deal With Paranoia?

HIV Stats

HIV Reality Behind the Statistics

HIV, Bargirls, and Statistics

My HIV Story

Back in Paradise

Living ‘The Bells of St. Trinian’s’

The Crazy Girl

Thai Girls Online

Why You Sahpeak Thai?

Bangkok City, Excerpts

The Only White Man in The Room

Nightmare Thai Situation, Help Needed!

Check Inn 99, 1998

Incident at Soi Cowboy

Ho Chi Minh City

Another Tour Of Duty

Sick Of Hearing Nothing But Doom And Gloom

Bangkok Red Shirts 2nd Anniversary Update

Silly Me

Medical Insurance When In Thailand

Memories of Hong Kong, 1972

Thailand or Legoland – Which Path for You?

The Chances You Take On Thai Dating Sites

The Falling Tears of a FL (Freelancer)

My Comment On “What Farangs Don’t Get About Thai Women”

Who Wants Gum?

My Girl Part 2

John

Cost Of Living In Thailand

My Bangkok Budget

Truth Or Tales, Living Expenses in Thailand

My Thoughts on “What A Horrible Country”

How I Increased Wealth In The Village

Transparent and Transparency

Not Just A Cinema

My Bangkok Budget

How Long Will That Take?

CSI: Bangkok

A Difficult Breakup

My Girl

Bangkok, Vietnam, Philippines and England

Letter From Norway

Philippines Ladies and Life

Western Society and the White Guy

Life on the Street in My ‘Hood: Part 2: Whores & Johns

The Second Phase!

My Special Massage in Laos

From The Provinces

The End Of Cowboy

Bargirl Monopoly

Men And Women, Again

Arriving in Bangkok

Thai Girlfriend Strategies for 2012

Baby Doll

Fallen Farangs

Don’t Believe and Don’t Think

Where Is The Thailand I Grew So Much To LOVE?

Does It Ever Stop?

Looking For Love in Jakarta Part 4

Some Positive Thoughts About The Philippines

Mongers – The Blame Game

Farang Life in Bangkok in 2012

Why I Never Married A Thai, I’m Thai!

American Guy Survives Murder Plot From His Vietnamese Wife In Vietnam, Be Careful In Vietnam

Looking For Love in Jakarta Part 6

My Thai Girlfriend, And My Thai Friend Who Is A Girl

Looking For Love in Jakarta Part 5

Bali Trip Report

Katoey Pestilence

Take Care Yourself, Tale Number 3

What Kind Of Pornography Is Illegal In Thailand?

Smartphones Killed The Gogo Bar

The Philippines, Not As It Seems

An Asian American’s View of the Phils

Crazy Girls – No Problem! Part One

Idiot Barebacker

Advice On My Thai Bargirl

My Thai Mistress (Part 3)

Moving to Thailand, How I Did It

The Hangover Part 0

Frustrations

Travelling Woes

My Trigger Point

The Pros and Cons of Living and Dating in the Philippines

Observations Of Ordinary Daily Life In The Philippines

My Thai Mistress (Part 2)

Looking For Love in Jakarta Part 3

Would I Have Been Happier in Thailand?

15 Reasons Why Angeles City Sucks and is a Terrible Place to Live

12 Years Of Marriage With a Bargirl

My Thai Mistress (Part 1)

Looking For Love in Jakarta Part 2

Cowboy Is The New Patpong

My Experience With My Thai lady

Looking For Love in Jakarta Part 1

My First Bargirl

My Tail is Dun

Pattaya Today

The Real Thap Phraya

Amazed At How Men Fall In Love With Bargirls

Why I Love Bargirls

My Take On Having A Mia Noi

I Am One Of Those South-East Asian Wives And This Is My Story

My Second Trip To Thailand

Thai Scam

Police Stop & Search

Visit October 2011

Thai Girl Puzzle

Happy With Life

The Holy Grail of Asian Girls

A Different Take On Bar Economics

Was It A Good Idea To Wear My Country’s National Rugby Jersey In Sukhumvit, Tiirak?

My First Thai Girlfriend

New Thai Movie About Farang / Thai Relationships?

Stickman Losers

Update to “I Married a Bar Girl”

Birthday Girl

Is Napster Right?

Turkey Scam

The German Scene

Kudos to Staff at After School Bar – and to the Thong Lor Police?

Another Thai Love Song

Response to The Thailand Bar Scene for Beginners

Response to Graduate Traveler

Life As An Expat

My Ex PI Wife Story

Death Threats

My Arrival In Thailand

Thailand And My Life

Why I Choose To Stay In Thailand

Iceland Dreams Of Thai Food And Road Trips

Poker in Manila

Fundamentals

Sawadee 2000 – How I would Have Handled Things

Attention S2000

The Story – Happy , Sad, and Without Ego

Travel Report 2007 – 2011

Double Love Triangle

Response To Is It Good To Travel Young

Categorizing Strategy

Helpful Hints And Tips, A Non-Exhaustive List

Have Thai People Changed Or Have We As “Farangs” Changed?

The Coming Of Master Jay

The West vs. The East, Again

So You Want To Be A Bar Owner?

Time to Get a Grip? Part 1

Why I Stay Where I Am

A Note On Sex, Men and Marriage, To Korski’s Daughter Or Granddaughter

The 79-Year Old Lothario

Luna

Western Women Are Evil

Thailand Number 1 Na

Help For The Lost

Latino Asking For Advice

A Fly On The Wall

Airmail

Western Women – My Opinion

Bygone Days

Self Exiled Farangs

Cuckold And Proud Of It

Western Women

Cop This!

AOT X-Ray Security Scam

Fact Checker Needs to Check his Facts

The Finest Drink

School in the West vs School in Asia

Marrying A Thai Girl, Thoughts

Dealing With Some Thais: And The World Suffers Many More Falsehoods Than Truth

Traditional Values and Wives

Delightful West Africa – A Broken Camera Becomes a Police Case in The Gambia

Sexless in the Maldives

I Was In Love

Teaching in Thailand, Book Excerpts

Soldier Become Educator?

A Bargirl’s Perspective Of Farangs

Delightful West Africa 24 – A Five Star Hotel Experience in The Gambia

Not All Fun In The Sun

Why Do Men Marry?

Rumours And Visas in Thailand

We Red Heart BKK Bar Girls

My Story, Happy and Sad, Follow Up

The Perfect Storm of Distraction

Advice For A Young Man

How Far Can The Yen Stretch?

Losing My Innocence As an 18 Year-old in Thailand

Not All Thai Ladies Are The Biggest Liars

Deciding Where To Live in Phuket

The Girl With The Handy

About Pattaya

Loss Lost In The LOS

Don’t Judge A Book By Its Cover

An Open Letter To Korski

Testosterone Levels & Stick Getting Back Into Shape

Response to Patti Dern

D Max Buffalo

One Of (The Few?) Success Stories

Six Months – The View from the Chicken Farm

Bargirl Needs An Op

HIV in Thailand

Lost in Thailand?

Why Do You Come to Thailand?

Reply: Lost and In Need Of Advice

Disneyland for Men

No Fear

Twelve University Graduates and Me

Female Sex Tourism / Cougars

The Removalists

My Thai Wife Experience

Views on the Chinese Perspective of Thailand

A Chinese Lady’s View About Thai Ladies

Delightful West Africa – Buying Music CDs in The Gambia

On Being Tainted

My Thai Experience

How To Better Weed Out The Psycho Ones

Delightful West Africa – Senegalese Live Music in The Gambia

Pattaya Experience From The Eyes of a 25-Year Old

My Story Part 3

Good Thai Girls – Don’t Overlook Them Part II

My Story Part 2

Delightful West Africa – The Tinikunda vs Manufeng Knock-Out Soccer Match in Jarjuville, The Gambia

Pattaya / Angeles / Phuket Trip Report

Delightful West Africa 20 – Gambia Upcountry: Tinikunda

My Story Part 1

Delightful West Africa – Gambia Upcountry: Kanilai and Tendaba

Car Ownership in Thailand

Delightful West Africa 18 – Gambia Upcountry by Rental Car

Delightful West Africa 17 – Friends and Visits in Coastal Gambia

Delightful West Africa 16 – Bumsters and Bumster Control on Gambia’s Beaches

Delightful West Africa 15 – Taxis, Phones and Love on Gambian Highways

Delightful West Africa 14 – My Taxis on The Gambia’s Tourist Coast

What To Do?

Delightful West Africa – Hotels and Money on The Gambia’s Coast

Good Thai Girls – Don’t Overlook Them

Delightful West Africa 12 – My Land Border Crossings between Senegal and Gambia

Delightful West Africa 11 – Casamance, Senegal

Trend on Tourism to Thailand

Delightful West Africa 10 – Village Visits in the Sine-Saloum-Delta, Senegal

Adverse Selection

Delightful West Africa 9 – Toubacouta, Sine-Saloum Delta, Senegal

Odes to European / Thai Girl Relationships

Another Stab At Corruption In Thailand

Living in a Fantasy World

The Demise Of The Eden Club And The Nightlife Industry

Delightful West Africa 8 – Alphonsine, My Young Senegalese Bride

Generalisations

Expecting More Younger Western Men in LOS

Delightful West Africa 7 – Tours and Tourist Business in Saly, Senegal

Delightful West Africa 6 – Walking in Saly, Senegal

The Teerak Prenup

The Interview

Delightful West Africa 5 – Djoudj Birds Sanctuary, Northern Senegal

Delightful West Africa 4 – Podor, Northern Senegal

Delightful West Africa 3 – My Taxi Trips to and from Podor, Northern Senegal

Young Farang Guys Starting Fights in CM Boxing Stadium

Middle Easterners Are From Asia

The Trend in Western Men / Women Relationships

Holiday Or Bust

100,000 Baht A Month Girls

Hidden Treasure Of Soi 33/2

My Story, Happy And Sad

Three Months

Closer

Excuse Me

Delightful West Africa 2 – Saint-Louis, Senegal

Delightful West Africa – Dakar, Senegal

About Corruption, My Response

About Corruption

Thai Corruption Exported To America

Christmas Eve Meal

What Is Expected From Us – We’re Not Thai

The Dream Is Becoming A Nightmare For Many

Warped View?

When Thai Women Meet

Lin Ping

The Mask or How to Rearrange Your Face Without Plastic Surgery

Other Ways To Earn And Stay Under The Radar

My View Of Thai Thai Women

Father’s Day In LalaLand

Thailand Is The France Of Asia

My Last Trip?

Operating Websites In Thailand

The Loss of Innocence

When Management Gets Into The Hands of a German

Thai Passport

Retirement In The LOS

Why We Reject Our Hosts

Phuket – Newbie Tips and Advice from a Newbie! Part 1

HIV And The Gift Of Life

Reflections of Phuket

L O S = Land Of Smokers

Travel / Accident Insurance

Western Women

Bar Life

Cheers For The Cheap Thai Police!

Nok Nok Noking On Heaven’s Door

Redundancy Is The Key To Clarity

Relationships In Thailand

The World Is Changing

Fighting The Western Girls’ System

What Thais Think Of Us

Frenchman Replies

Brown Pants in Manila

My Baby Dolls Girl

Flooded Out

The Mystery of Pan’s Attraction

Thai Travel Agent Rip Off

Old Men, Young Women, Marriage

It’s Popular To Bash Samui

Racism Towards Indians in Thailand

Are Chula Professors Hot?

The Nana Ghost

Discrimination In The West

Finding and Keeping a Thai Girlfriend

The Old Farang/Thai Girl Debate

African Scammers in Bangkok

The PR Option

Roller Coaster Part 1

Visa Run Memories

The Next Thailand

Thailand Is Just Another Life-Consuming Recreational Drug

Man’s Best Friend

Played And Stunned

Bargirl Help Needed!

Walking Is The Best Medicine

UnBEElievable

My Take On “Turning Their Back On The Fatherland”

What Is Happiness?

What I Retirement?

The Desert Of Bangkok, August / September 2009

In Support Of OFB

Survival Of The Fittest

Stay Or Go, Age Defines Attitudes

A Matter Of Life And Death

Bangkok Suburbs And Some Observations

I Couldn’t Make This Up

An Alternative Sukhumvit Perspective

Snap Shots

Miss Perfect

TMNG

Retirement in Thailand (at age 42?)

Snap Happy Farang Women

The Polygyny Threshold and Pattaya

Just A Smile

When The Past Is More Exciting Than The Future

A Diary Of Six Days In Pattaya

The Last Chance Saloon

Westerner Bought And Sold….Again

To Whom It May Concern: Attn. DanaInAmerica

Condoms And The Rainy Season

My Slice of Spice

Things You Should Know Marrying A Thai Bride

Forgive Or Forget?

Bargirl Speaks Truth

Thailand versus China

Turning Their Back On The Fatherland

The Foolproof Method Of Thai Online Dating

Why I Drive a Nissan

Great Expectations

A Bird In The Hand…

Men And Women, What Else?

The Way To A Thai Girl’s Heart

Part Of My Honeymoon To Thailand And Laos

What’s Normal, Thais, Bangkok Decadence

Musings

Not Esquire’s Guide to Mongering Etiquette

Dear Blue

Korski has it Wrong

The One-legged Security Guard

Orang-utans, Renoir And Freddie Mercury

Why I Date Younger Women

HCG: Much Better

Dirty Old Men

Half–Chinese Girl and Utley

How Can You Top Her Arrogance?

Yet Another Response to HCG and Loser’s Paradise

Baby, You Are So Insignificant

All Western Women Including Prostitutes Are Bad News

The Loser’s Paradise, A Half-Chinese Girl Speaks Again

Our Dirty Little Secret – The Leftovers

A Loser Is Anyone Who Is Second In The Race or Below

In Arm’s Reach

My Opinion On Mongers In Thailand: In Agreement With Young Half Chinese Girl

Ms. HCG: Farangs Can Dish It Out But Can’t Take It

The Loser’s Paradise – My Thoughts

Dear Sister

The Dirty Doctor’s Adventures With Stickman

Hellalujah

Response to the Young Chinese American Girl

The Loser’s Paradise

Bar And Bargirl Economics

Divorce Disaster – All Western Men Lose

The Brand Attitude of Thais

The Cycle

Farang Men / Thai Lady Comments

My Life with My Wonderful Wife

Is This The End For The Yellow Shirts?

Voting with your Feet

Paying For An Education

One-Man Indian Boycott of Pattaya

Boredom and Opportunity Cost

Miss Taiwan

Bad Mai Thai

So I Married A Bargirl

The Cost Of A Good Education In Thailand

It’s Not So Bad

Idiot Farangs

Abandoning 99.9% Of The Population For Gogo Dancers, Chancers And Freelancers

Why I Go To Pattaya

To Each Their Own

Forbidden Fruit

The ESL Industry: A Different Point of View!

Married Women in the West Don’t Like Sex

Westerner’s Wives in Northeast Thailand, A Dismal Lot?

Some Culprits Do Not Wear Red Shirts

Thailand, Other Countries And The Lie About Democracy

WHAM – Thailand in Crisis 2010

So What The Hell Do They Know About Football In Thailand?

The Last Stand

Away From The Bars And The Tourist Spots, And The Jayson Saga

Farangs and Thai birds…What the heck?

Go Girl!

Cheers for the Deviants!

A Reality Check – A Look at the Foreign Males in Thailand

The New People Traffickers

A Reality Check–The Follow-up

Jayson And Green Stars And Men And Women

Am I Missing Something?

Things I Don’t Understand

Are Thais Racist?

The Role Thai Men Play

Some Responses to Stickman’s Observations in Support of Jayson

The Jason Debate, What The Numbers Say

Jayson’s Half-Brother

Reply To Jayson

A Reality Check – The Same for Every Asian Country

Another Entry in the Debate About Jayson

One Finger Pointing Outward, Three Pointing Inward – The Fuss Over Jayson’s Article

Communication And Jayson’s Insecurities

I Don’t Give a Rat’s Arse

Korski Does It Right

Jayson’s Reality Check – Get Real!!

Abhisit’s Thoughts

Watching From A Safe Distance

Are Jayson’s Points Banal And Obvious?

Death Of My Wife

Farang Men / Thai Women — A Reality Check

The Red Shirt Refund

The Importance Of Family

Robbed After Drinking in Patpong 2

My Thai Experience in Farangland

Find The Gold In The Rubble

Western Women and the Men They Rode In On

A Night To Remember

There’s Good And Bad Women Everywhere

Talisman For The Condition Of The Young Western Man

Wanderlust Loses the Plot

Western Women: a Dialog with Caveman

What If?

Thailand

Villa Market Scam Artist, 1:20 AM

Same Same But Different

All About Coloured Shirts

A Tale From Central Dept. Store

Frying to Fuket

Dating In The West; A Response To Wanderlust And Billy Bunter

My First Time In Pattaya

A Working Vacation

Being Thai and the Burden of Presumption

Never Get Involved With A Western Woman

The Acceptable Face Of Prostitution

Please Let Me Enjoy This While It Lasts!

Singapore And Thailand

Angeles City Update

Joining the Club

Memories Of Patpong

Delightful Indian Encounters (2/2) – North Kerala

Delightful Indian Encounters

Getting Engaged In The Back Seat Of A Bangkok Taxi

Self-Reflection

A Letter From TLL

Tips For The Big Durian

Living In The Land Of Smiles And Earning An Income Without Being A Teacher (It’s Possible)

Soapy Tales

When Everything Fails

A Dangerous Situation

Help!

Sad Case In Nana

A Day In The Life of Nok

P4P or GFE or Castration (Physical or Chemical)

Pattaya versus Angeles City, The Truth

What To Wear and Where To Walk

The House Of Ghosts

Can I Buy My Whore Respectability?

The Long Arm Of The Law

Car Crash In Thailand, My Story So Far

Thoughts On The Great Debate

Been Becoming Unnecessary

Okay, Stick, Give Us Much More Than You Have. Korski On Stick

Morals?

Some Statistics Concerning The Morality of Whoremongering

Marrying A Traditional Girl Part 3

The Industry

Sharp Stick

The Inequality Gap

Taken For A Ride

Questions Concerning The Morality Of Whoremongering

Stabbing At Nana

Saved by Another’s Death

What Is The Answer?

The Industry

Some Support In The Ring

Morals / Mores / Monger’s Travails in Asia

Reflections On My Teaching Experiences

Delightful India – Domestic Flights & Taxis

A Women’s Perspective

The Morality of Mongering

Sin Sot Story

My South East Asia Trip

In Reply To Marc Holt’s Is It Moral

The Girl Friend Experience

Maslow’s Triangle And Its Relation To Thailand

Why The Bars Bore You

Marriage With A Traditional Girl Part 2

Taxi Dilemma

Marriage With A Traditional Girl Part 1

Late Night Ladyboy Encounter

Online Dating Can Work

Appearances of Acceptance and Respect

Notes on Hong Kong

Angeles And Angels

A Pig’s Tale

Intersection of Respect, Power, and Money

The Infidelity Hole

Frankie Rebutted

Moving To Thailand

Starting Rotation

What Do YOU Expect?

Ten Hard, Fast Rules for Meaningful Mongering

A Farang Takes A Beating

It’s No Fun Being A Loser

Len Ganley’s Love Children

Are You Considering A Thai Partner

One Of The Lucky Ones