A Broken Man Is Really Busted Now

Poor Phet. Having met him once with Union Hill and spent a very enjoyable evening with him, I feel for his predicament. But at the same time I cannot help shaking my head in frustration with him. So Phet, here is what I think and my suggestions for getting out of your current predicament.

You made a poor choice for a wife. A real wife does not act the way Nat has treated you. She has not acted in any way like a real wife. She moved away from you as soon as possible when she saw you had no money and went to London. That should have been the point where you put your foot down and severed the relationship right there and then.

Luckily, you got married in Thailand. I sure hope you didn’t make the mistake of registering it with the British authorities. Let’s assume you didn’t. You can simply get a quick Thai divorce. You might even be able to do it at the Thai embassy in the UK, although you would have to check that out for yourself.

At the very least, Nat has now laid herself open to be deported for going to the UK under false pretenses. She obviously used you to get there in the hope of getting a good job. All you have to do is report her to immigration. Now you tell us she is ‘learning massage’? Yeah, right. She’s learning alright. “How do I hold his dong to get him to cum quickly?” Once she’s learned that what else is there to do but get into the job and start making money? And if you tell immigration what she is working at they will want her out of the country as quickly as possible. Do this, because if she stays too long she qualifies for actual married status and then she can take what little you have left.

She has broken her contract with you, and with British immigration authorities. She went to the UK on a marriage visa. She has broken the marriage, moved out and is obviously not intending to return. So she is very vulnerable. Go for her mate! She has screwed you over, now it’s your turn. Get her out of the UK and away from any possibility of making any further mischief for you. She’s a gold digger. She’ll be calculating how she can get more out of you if she sees you have a new job.

It’s always difficult to admit to yourself that you have made a mistake, but this is what you must do Phet if you are going to gain some equilibrium in your life. I'm sorry to say it, but you don't have a marriage. You have a liability. Get rid of her now while you can. She's only going to be more trouble for you.

There is no point in waiting around for her. You have done more than any reasonable man should. The signs are all there. I hope you wake up and do something about it.

Reading through your previous postings on Stickman I could see a recurrent theme. You lack the confidence to even start, let alone maintain, a relationship with a Western woman. You keep making the excuse that they don’t attract you. That’s bullshit of the highest order. There are plenty of beautiful, intelligent, worthwhile English or other Western women around. You just have to open your mind and your heart. You have told us how you have met other women in the UK in the past who were interested in you. But you have always rejected them. Maybe you should have opened up to them so you could find a mate with the same interests, culture, and intelligence as you.

Now you tell us you have met a Chinese woman and you have already jumped into bed with her. But you couldn’t perform!

Man, you have problems, and they are all in your head. Phet, you need to sort out your own life first. You are trying much too hard to find a woman. Relax and stop looking. Instead of eyeing every pooying you meet as potential mating material slow down and get to know them properly first. Think with the big head man!

Do you really think this Chinese woman is going to be any better than Nat or your first wife? I seriously doubt it. She has already started pulling your strings expertly. She led you on to her bed. All her talk about her pussy being shut tight after not being used for a while is one of the oldest tricks in the book. I can’t count how many times I’ve heard it, opened the gates, and then moved on. You don’t need that sort of conniving woman in your life do you?

But your biggest problem right now is your bank book. You have no money, no prospects and no hope. So if you keep chasing that elusive golden pussy you dream about you are going to have to get real. No more wasting time and money on lost causes. You need a job. You have been offered a good, high paying job in the Middle East. Take the opportunity. You could go there for a couple of years, put up with all the bullshit of living in a Muslim country and save the money.

Once you have some money saved you can easily fly across to Thailand. But don’t go looking for a wife. Go for the pussy man! Forget all the romantic crap. You need some damn good sex. Go get it!

And when you are financially secure again, move to Thailand for a few months or more. Get to know some of the ordinary young women that are so plentiful there. You don’t have to look far if you dress well and present yourself confidently...no football shirts or even talk about football while you court the girl you choose. Don’t talk about yourself either. There is nothing more off-putting than a bloke telling a woman about the other women he has failed with. Talk about things that interest her. Find out what she likes and doesn’t like. Get to know her. But don’t get too eager. Women can smell desperation and they will run a mile...or take advantage of it, as Nat did.

I have always found that a fun personality and a big smile work wonders. You have both these qualities in spades, so use them! Thais love to see happy smiling faces. They like to keep things light and fun. They don’t like men who “think too mutt”. Keep her laughing and happy and you will be well on the way.

Or you could always find a sexy young thing who bangs like a dunny door in a cyclone and take her back to the UK with you. At least you will wake up in the morning looking at a real young beauty. That should make your day!